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"Does the LORD delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices as much as in obeying the voice of the LORD ? To obey is better than sacrifice, and to heed is better than the fat of rams." - 1 Sam 15:22b

In his heart a man plans his course, but the LORD determines his steps. - Proverbs 16:9


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Thursday, December 17, 2009

i was set thinking wat i wan out of a relationship.. i mean well.. we have our expectations n criterias of e other half.. but when one enter into a relationship, wat do we expect from it? wat do we expect to get from it? lots of love? care n concern? sense of security? assurance? pampering? support? giving in? n to wat extent is wat u expecting reasonable?

i dunno whether anyone gets wat i m trying to say.. haha.. but oh well.. i m staying away till i hv figured out n is clear of wat i wan. haha.. n to wat extent is it reasonable.. nt asking for e impossible tt can only b n shld b found in God.. n tt setting an expectation tt is too high..

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Tuesday, December 8, 2009

thank u panadol n dustbin.. haha.. ok.. ignore tt.. i m crapping..

ok.. here is an analogy tt i heard during sharing w my brothers n sisters when i attended their camp 2 wks ago.. they attended a talk n heard tis analogy and brought it back to share with us.. e talk is bout BGR.. here goes e analogy..

u take a new scrotchtape.. it's clear n u can c thru it.. tis is jus like how one is b4 she/he enters into a relationship.. his/her views on relationships r e purest.. n she/he sees things clearly.. n when u get into a relationship, it's like sticking the tape onto your hand. when u break off, it's like pulling the tape out. when u pull e tape out, u feel e pain. cos it's a new n sticky tape.. n when u pull it out, wat is left on e scrotchtape is e hair of e other party n e tape is oso no longer clear like b4. tis means tt when u break off, u bring with u something tt belongs to e other party. it may b memories or other stuff. n ur view on relationships will no longer be as pure as before.. u kind of c things differently cos ur views r affected by ur past relationships. n when u get into another relationship n stick on e scrotchtape again, it wun b tt sticky anymore.

i like tis analogy alot.. though simple.. yet it aptly describe how things r.. it'll b best to wait for e right one n stick on tt scrotchtape, never to take it out.. e right one is worth e wait.. haha..

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Friday, September 11, 2009

yay.. finally MAS 111 quiz is over. haha.. prof say it's easy.. we dun believe.. but actually, really easy.. easier than tut qns. haha.. he really helping us.. haha.. can say tt i study so much a bit wasted lah.. but nth is wasted lah.. jus tt i spent too much tym on tis module le.. haha.. n yay.. i m back home.. haha.. no tuition today.. but next wk, my tuition schedule is bad.. hai.. no choice.. n i treated myself to bubble tea.. haha.. n ya.. v tired now.. jus now b4 mas111, i had a 2 hrs break.. after taking lunch, we went over to e lt.. i wan to slp.. but cnt fall asleep.. hai.. i think i insomia le lah.. haha.. gt nearly fall asleep twice.. but cnt in e end.. hai.. haha.. den during e lect, most of us were nt paying attention.. cos we were all concerned bout e test at e later part of e lect. haha.. den e prof was teaching logic.. so he teach on e part on if.. 'if there is a test today, students will come'.. haha.. cos he say he observed tt more ppl turn up for e lect today.. haha.. den when he wans to open e file for e quiz qn from his laptop, he cant open.. den we cheered.. haha.. den he on e com in e lt n attempt to open.. when we saw e word icon on e file, we noe can open le.. so when e microsoft 2007 screen apear, we 'aiya'.. haha.. n e prof give e look tt teachers always give.. tt kind of 'proud tt they can show e file in e end.. n happy to c tt students r disappointed' face.. haha.. so funny..

when i m v tired.. i hv 2 extremes.. one extreme is i'll b high.. n b siao.. another extreme, which is e case for today, i'll b quite quiet.. den like walking zombie.. hai..

me n my friends came to a conclusion tt on fri, our lect for programming got go = dun go.. so fot me, it's effectively, only 2 lects n nt 3.. haha.. k.. i shall spend my weekend well.. study hard.. play guitar.. n slp! haha... study.. eh.. motivation? lol.. srsly, to add on to my earlier post today, i hope tt i'll enjoy my tym in uni.. i dun wan to become one who jus care bout getting super gd grades at e expense of other things or stepping on ppl to climb up.. though i really think wat's happening in uni somewat reflects e reality of world out there.. ppl climb on ppl to succeed... i dun wan to b such ppl.. i dun wan to lose friendship or make use of ppl in my pursuit of grades.. tis is nt e way i wan things to b.. i jus wan to do well enough to meet my own target, enjoy life in uni w e friendships.. but do true friendships exist in uni n in e working world? where everyone is concern bout their own survival only.. n e phrase go in chinese... either u survive or me.. hai.. i dun like tis..

i like e once a wk bus journey back from boon lay to my hse.. 172.. pass by jalan bahar.. haha.. cos i can do some thinkings.. n can slp too.. haha.. well.. was thinking bout some things as usual.. or shld i say hv been thinking bout it since some tym ago.. jus tt when things happen, or when friends talk bout it, etc. i'll think more.. i m thinking slightly more now. haha.. n during mas 111 lect jus now.. while my friends r either paying attention to e lect or trying to do some more qns b4 e quiz, i was stoning.. mind elsewhere.. haha.. den i gt 'ling gan' to write chinese compo.. lol.. haha.. but didnt write full lah.. dun intend to cont le.. haha.. k... i hope i really noe wat i wan now lah. haha.. i thot a bit jus now.. haha.. hope... is uni a gd place to b in? hai.. i wan true friendships..

anw, here’s a bit of my thots tt I wanna share.. me n my friends hv concluded a few tyms tt a relationship is always passionate at e beginning stage.. n after a while, all e ‘sweet’ stuff dies down.. n e ‘high’ period n excitement period is over.. n some ppl will feel tt e relationship is getting boring.. or sian.. or lose e ‘feeling’ le n some will break off in search for another ‘exciting/fulfilling/passionate’ relationship.. but in my opinion, which I shared w a few friends b4.. true love is nt like tis.. true love is one tt even after e passionate period is over.. n there seems to b nt much surprises or sweet stuff left.. when everything tt is left aren’t anything new, e love is still e same.. it’s still strong.. e love for each other.. e hope tt each is doing well.. e true concern.. I dunno how to phrase tis.. it’s like amidst all e ‘routines’ stuff tt u do tgt, u still enjoy it cos of e person u doing it w, nt how ‘new’ tt stuff is.. nt e excitement w new stuff.. n u wun complain of sian.. cos even e routines stuff r nice n comfortable.. I dunno.. many may find this a naïve thot.. afterall, y do married couples divorce after decades tgt? Cos sian already.. hai.. n e world seems to reinforce tt there is no true love.. everything is jus a fantasy.. but I still hold on to e hope tt true love exists. Haha.. n I believe tt time n trials r a gd test of love. Whether it’s genuine or nt.. :)

lol… too much thots le… haha.. u can jus ignore me.. haha.. jus penning down my thots.. but another advice for my dear friends is, dun rush into a relationship for hving one.. or jus cos ur emotions rule over u.. dun go into one if u r nt sure wat u wan out of tt relationship. Dun rush into one when u dun expect things to turn out.. dun rush into one when u r nt sure of ur own feelings.. like I say, tym is a gd test of love… think it thru carefully.. take some tym.. dun rush.. though ppl may say tt chances only come by once.. but if it’s urs, it’ll b urs.. haha.. of course still mus grab hold of chances lah.. when u r sure of wat u wan le.. I wish all my friends tt they will b able to find true love.. :) sounds like I m dreaming.. lol.. haha.

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